My travels are my insights and learning experience, recently I was traveling to for healing session, and I met a gentleman next to me, who with discussion started sharing his life and the roller coaster ride he had, he asked a question, SV tell me why are there failures even if we try our best and it is tiring sometime to rise and fall over again,
Who has not seen Failure? we humans have faced failure at one point or the other in our life. People have considered suicides, have faced bankruptcies, failed in schools, colleges, interviews, lost races, matches, failed relationships etc, Failures should be experienced. If you want to succeed in life,you have to fail, and you have to fail often, you have to learn all there is from each failure, it’s that simple.
There are certain failures in life necessary for the fruition of success,without them, you’ll be missing a piece of the puzzle. It takes time to understand the romantic relationships or friendships we have with different people in our life. Most of the time when we fall-out with a friend, we understand our self a little better and hope to lead a better life by choosing better friends. It’s most often the company we keep that determines the life we live.
Similarly, I have hardly met anyone who has not spent a whole lot of time choosing a right career / job,a whole lot of trial and error goes through to find your passion in life. It takes time to develop this skill, to observe and learn, we need to always keep in mind that it is most important to observe and calculate. Its important to remember, that our long term goal is resilience: the ability to adapt and thrive,each failure is a chance to grow stronger and wiser,
Positive reframing of mind allow one to bounce back. A very famous actor, a blockbuster performer’s career tanked along with his production house, he had a meteoric rise and quick downfall and was bankrupt, with his continuous fight not to give up he soon rose to the top again.
What he learned in life is nothing, not even a simple pair of slippers advert is “beneath” you but in any profession respect is earned by your skills and your attitude. No human ever became interesting by not failing, the more you fail and recover and improve, the better you are as a person.
Believe in the magic of you and the Divine light within, the trials we undergo only helps us to evolve as better human, soon your time will change just have faith in you, saying adieu to him I went on my temporary destination and learning yet another lesson of life,
Have a loving and peaceful life, you know what you have, just hear it more,
Stay blessed,
Spiritual Veda