Author : Mr.Ramesh Kuppuswamy
A usual morning, my dad was busy cleaning his two-wheelers in the basement of the house. It was not one, two or three. It was four two-wheelers in his possession. The earliest one was of 60’s Hercules bicycle. As the technology advanced, he added a moped (motorized bicycle) to make a faster mobility and then a scooter to take my mom or children behind. That he feels little heavy to handle now. A lightweight scooter added to his stable suiting his temperament and age of 80 plus. Hope, he does not push himself back to ride a bicycle to complete life cycle of his travel on two-wheelers.
It was not the passion that made him accumulate so many, but a thought that “Just in case” these vehicles may be required in future for his use or anyone in his family. He is not the only one in this pursuit to keep material things for just in case requirement but may be reflecting many of us.
When I stepped into the boarding school, a tiny metal box fitted to take a long list of things the school had asked me to have. With different sets of clothes to shoes and other essential requirements to meet my daily needs. This box became big when I stepped into Military for training in the mid-teens. As I grew up in Military, a single box multiplied as the years passed by to stand at four dozen of boxes. When I shifted from one place to another, these boxes tagged along with my pride possessions. Even the smallest things used for once was so important just with a thought that just in case these may be required.
A legacy was being built on what my dad was doing. He associated everything he had with some memories. He proudly recollected his good memories when telling his children and then, to his grandchildren as how each one is so special to him. I did the same thing to my children.
Many memories are associated with our material possessions. Some of them mean so close to our heart recollecting the achievement behind it.
After stepping out been in Military for two-plus decades, the reality struck as I moved from an organized environment to an unorganized civic life. A need to live a simple life managing daily chorus. That pushed me to take stock of things that would actually be required. A time to shed many of the things. One last time, I recollected the memories associated with each and had to say goodbye, even it means that just in case it may be required. I just let it go.
When I cleared of this clutter, I really knew what was important to me now. The memories were not present in the things, but only in my mind. It reduced me to becoming light and simplistic. An insight into what is required in life, becoming contented and less consumption-oriented with material possession. The sentiments attached to every material thing added only misery, in the end, masking us to live in the present moment.
Let go of what is not required, whether it is material or the experiences. Everything that weighs needs to be dropped making this journey light to walk. Rich experience connecting with good people and nature always adds inspiration to live. Decluttering the mind often is very much required as detoxing the body for good health.
‘ Just in Case‘ are avoidable words, which I keep them away from my life. Uncertainties do come, but stocking inventory to meet an odd contingency is not worth it. Learn from experiences and move on. Nothing is worth carrying all along. Stay simple and happy.
By Ramesh Kuppuswamy
