Why is the possessiveness…? by Roopika

Why the possessiveness gets into human mind? What do they achieve out of it?

Love …they say love…Is it the love or the desire to own the person whom they feel loved. Love can never be held with ownership. Love can never be kept in prison. Love is a free bird which love to fly always high in the sky without any restrictions. Love is always open to receive and give. It flows like a water which is eager to reach the ocean. 

If people really love each other then why is the doubt? Why is the jealous? Why is the possessiveness? Why is the thought of owning that person and have an idea of keeping that person into the custody forever which can never succeed. 

It is always said that the outer world is the reflection of our own inner world. I truly believe in that. In such case it is our responsibility to keep our inner world beautiful with only unconditional love which is far away from negatives like possessiveness, jealous, doubt, etc., How one can own another is always my question? If our loved one is not willing then, whatever we do he or she would not stay with us physically or mentally. He or she will find one or the other way to go out of our life. Making all the effort to possess will irritate them and make one to go quicker than the normal speed.

So if you are really in love with someone then, let them be what they are, let them be how they want to be, let them be unique, let them be special. Love him or her as they are. Why to change, when it is needed to be changed the loved one will do that willfully without our effort for their own progress. Free the love and see the love flying beautifully with joy infront of you. 

Love the Love, Live the Life…. be the joy always 🙂 

Roopika N

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